How Your Attitude Decides Everything

Hi Guys, hope you all are doing well. Today I am going to talk about “How Your Attitude Decides Everything”. I have seen a lot of people who are not happy with their life and they want to change it but they are not sure how to start.

Attitude is a very important term to live a happy life. It is one of the most important factors in life. If you have a positive attitude then you can do anything you want. You have seen some people who are enjoying their life but they have less wealth as compared to others who have much wealth but they are not capable of enjoying their life. The main point here is that if you can’t enjoy and be happy with only your wealth, then what can make your life full of joy?.

And the answer is very simple, “Your Attitude”.



Both positive and negative attitudes exist in the world. Some are positive, such as that you will be successful, that you have made the right decision, or that you will find happiness and success. Others are negative, such as that you are a failure, that your actions are wrong and that you will never be happy, or that you are bad at something and will be a failure throughout life. It's up to you to choose which attitude you want to have in your life.

Here are some roles of attitude in your daily life:

Attitude for Career Growth

The most important aspect of your career is your attitude. If you approach your job with a positive attitude, you’ll be able to learn new things and grow. If you approach your job with a negative attitude, you’ll be stuck in a rut and won’t progress anywhere. It’s up to you to decide whether you want to keep your current job or pursue a higher position.

You have seen your colleagues always complaining about their job, bitching at their bosses, and acting lazy to work. This is only because they are not enjoying their job. Every time whenever a new project is assigned to them they don't value it. As a result, Project got terminated by the client. In this process they are not thinking for a sec that their ranking is getting down, because they haven't worked with a positive attitude, they haven't tried new strategies, and they haven't given their hundred percent.

But you can control this command with your attitude. You can accept whatever tasks are assigned, you affirm to your mind that it's an easy task, you enjoy working on these tasks, and you give your hundred percent every time. In the end, you will easily complete that task.

Attitude of Happiness

Life is complex. Happiness is a different concept altogether. Some say happiness is the absence of sadness, which I find to be something that may be worth pursuing but not necessarily necessary. In our daily life routine, we face many things that make us sad but there are also things that make us happy. The only thing that matters is how to discover them. If you are able to divert your mood from sadness to happiness, then no one can stop you from being happy. The main cause of your sadness is that you didn't question your cause of being sad. There are a lot of problems in the world but with that, but there are also many solutions for them.

Suppose you have feelings for your crush but you don't know how to tell her to make her know that you like her. Later you find a way to tell her but she rejects you because she likes someone else. Now the main point is here that you have created an unwanted problem for yourself. You liked her but did not tell her early. That's why a lot of feelings are generated in your heart for her and when she rejects you, you feel very sad. How could you be happy then?

Here's the attitude of happiness can take action. You can affirm to your mind that you are not made for each other, there is someone else who is waiting for you. I agree that this is not an easy thing to do but if you come to do this then half of your life problems will be solved. You can do this happily for yourself knowing that your life will be better, your heart will be happy and you will find someone who will make you happy. This is the attitude of happiness.

Happiness is a strong emotion in everything we do, but it's not something that can be learned or manipulated. Happiness is a process and like anything else, you have to go at it and try to figure things out on your own. The good news is that there are many things you can do to better your chances of feeling happy.

Attitude of Accepting Reality

Every minute your mind is generating tons of thoughts, which are totally imaginary and ninety-nine percent unrealistic. Your thoughts can include that you are getting promoted to a senior post, you are walking on a road and suddenly get a bag that has 1M dollars in it, and you become popular overnight. Now observe these thoughts carefully and think, is that really possible. Every time you built a castle in your own imagination and feel amazing but when you face reality, you get sad. The twist here is that why can't we be real, think real, act real, see real.

In the first line, I considered “ninety-nine percent unrealistic”. Why did I say that? Why didn't I say the whole hundred percent?

Because the remaining one percent of your thoughts actually happen. Whenever we think we generate some rare thoughts that are actually part of reality. They are not exactly the same as your dream but you can relate them to your thoughts and find your thoughts near them.